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Being licked feels wonderful to women. There are a few women who don't
find it pleasant, but most women just love it - if you do it right!
The problem here is that according to women, a lot of men don't know
how to give a woman pleasure through oral - so strap on your safety
belts - as we tell you what women really like. An important thing to
understand about women is that a lot of women are shy and kind of
embarrassed about how their body looks. If the woman you're with isn't
comfortable with her body, be reassuring but also dim or turn off the
lights. This will help your partner to concentrate on what you're
doing to her instead of worrying about how she looks to you.
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After a nice long foreplay session, try moving down to your lover's
inner thighs. This is one of a woman's most sensitive and erotic
spots, although it is also one of the ones she worries the most about,
appearance wise. Try gently kissing her inner thighs, and licking
them with a dry, pointed tongue. Light nibbles are good, too. A few
women are too ticklish to enjoy this. Don't force the issue or she'll
be a nervous wreck instead of passionate. When you first move to your
partner's vagina, do not do anything sudden. Try licking gently up and
down her lips, not opening them, just licking them and maybe a very
gentle nibble. After a couple minutes, you can suck on them but never
be rough or suck too hard. Don't go further yet unless she urges you
to or until you start hearing her breathing change or little moaning
sounds.
Now
you move on to the hood of skin covering her clitoris. That is the
little nub of flesh to the front her her vagina. If a woman is
excited, her clitoris will be
hard. If she is not totally excited, it will be soft and very small.
If it is not totally hard, or you are not sure, suck gently on the
hood over her clit, not yet touching the clit itself. You can use a
finger from one hand to stroke her vaginal lips. If you feel moisture
on them, you can very gently insert just the very tip of your finger
between her lips as you suck over her clit. After a little while - and
don't rush - gently push back the skin so that the clitoris is
exposed. Be very gentle with it - there are a lot of nerve endings in
this piece of flesh. Gently suck it - VERY gently. Alternate sucking
with soft licking with the tip of your tongue.
Now here are a few things you can try in any random order you like and
as she likes:
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Try licking her
clit in fast little circles
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Insert your
finger into her canal
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Try licking in
figure eight motions
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Use both hands
to hold her legs apart
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Move the finger
inside her like you were stirring a very small cup of coffee
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Put a second
finger inside of her and spread the two fingers gently apart, then
together over and over
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Lick her clit in
a short, fast up and down motion
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Push her legs
into the air and hold them there
You
can try other things, too. Make sure to pay attention, because at
some point, your partner will become more excited. She may grab your
head or
start pulling your hair. If she pulls your head toward her, try not
to change what you are doing with your tongue any more. A lot of men
think that when
a woman reaches her peak of excitement just before she climaxes that
this would be a great time to add variety. Don't. This is a great
time to keep
doing exactly what turned her on the most. Something to note here is
that if a man starts to orgasm and the physical stimulation that got
him there is removed, he will probably continue his orgasm. This is
not the case for women. If you stop licking her before she is done,
her orgasm will stop in the middle, and she will be very, very
frustrated.
Never use teeth on a woman unless it is gentle enough not to hurt. Use
a gentle touch always, unless requested otherwise. Be sure to pay
attention so you'll know which things you did that she liked the
best. A man that gives great oral sex to a woman can bring her her
greatest sexual pleasure. |
